Sunday 9 November 2014
Saturday 27 September 2014
2.Continued of the first steps
Hi boys! In this part I write you about the advantages of a correspondence.
The easiest way(mostly if you shy) to know a girl is that you find out any availability of hers(etc. facebook,E-mail address) where you can message her. If you don't know her in real life or you just know her from school,job but didn't talk to her yet ,you have to guess what will you write in the first letter. If she answers that a half success, after that it will be easier, but somewhere you have to start it. These are things which you have to guess, that how you solve this problem but I'm sure you have good ideas for it cause if a man really like someone they find the mode to let her know it.
If you get stuck at somewhere, write me in comments or to my address and I'll help you if I can. : )
So, you should know how to acquire her availability and the text which you will write to her.
We all know it's easier to write her than talk to her in real because if the words don't come fast you can think about it, you can edit which you've written and noone know if you blush.
Sure, not just ask her. Write about yourself also, etc. things which you share with her with pleasure. Maybe she likes the same things and has the same thoughts in her head.
It will be easier to meet her and talk to her, if you know more about eachother..so take advantage of this. Ascertain that, what tiny gifts suprise her, of course don't ask her.
Ascertain that also what places she likes so you can ask her out to a place where she can relaxed and lazy and so on.
In this way the feeling is that you know her from years because through on this time you know lots of things about eachother and the talking will be relaxed.
Umm..a good idea, for example start speak about that what you don't like..I mean for example people who arguing for no reason..it's something which she sure agree with so the conversation can easily go on.
But mainly write about that what you like, what are your interests, what is important for you and write with right spelling( although it's easy if you use spelling checker). Besides this watch out of the writing, be creative and a very good point if you are funny, but don't fall in exaggerations.
Reply if you can for her questions, because sure she ask it with reason.
If she asks something which you don't want to reply or you don't know the answer immediately what would be the best answer?
Well write to her this question suprised you and you need time to reply.
So you have time to think about it and later you'll sure know what to write but if no...then tell her you'd rather speak about it in real so you still have time to think. But keep think about the answer cause if you meet her she sure will be curious why you didn't want write it down. So your answer should be ready!
Ask her about things which you interested about her but just with rate! Don't ask too personal things.
Although lots of girls interested in boyly things, but at your questions,topics take into consideration that you don't speak with your dudes. First try know that what topics she interested in, because if you gushy about things which you like, etc. omg you saw the movie "The Time" ? I think it's very cool and I love it and .......... so on..
If she doesn't fond of movies or only this film didn't gains her pleasure she will be bored, but she won't tell it to you because she doesn't want hurt you.
It's not sure your interests are common, though this is the ideal. Okay this topic deserves an other part, I will write about it later.
Now I wanna write about that, you shouldn't afraid of the first date, and think about that wether you deserve her or not. Please forget it immediately!
If she really likes you then she likes the all of you, appearence and personality too..not matter if you think you have got a big nose, or big ears or you a little fatty and so on.
Maybe you have a trait which you don't like but she likes. What would be on the world if everyone like the same appearenced people? Fortunately there are lots of type of people and at the end , when the time comes everyone find them lover.
You feel yourself miserable and afraid of that she doesn't like you. Why would be someone different from you?
You have to own a little confidence. Think about that, she is just a flesh,blood person and she doesn't live in dreamland. Of course she can dream about singers and actors but she wants belong to an ordinery guy, lots of people don't like spotlights.
Easily can happen that she finds that trait positive in you which you don't.
Don't decide instead of her that she likes you or not, think about that in the same situation you wouldn't let her do the same when you crazy without her.
In fact, first the most important are the chemistry and the appearence but if you plan a long-term relationship with her the personality and the inside traits are the most important and most valuable.
Now go back to that which I started talk about in the previous chapter.
I finished at the eye contact...
Well while you watching at her, and you try everything just to be noticeable for her and of course you can't watch something else or someone else just her, try notice that what does she do when she notice you stare at her.
You know when they say read between the lines.
Thoroughly look her behaviour, reaction to decide what should be the next step.
If you don't know her that's harder but if you know how she behave when you guys speak, then you can decide if her attitude changed into you or not.
Unfortunately you can't be sure about the things even if she looks at you too, cause maybe she just curious why you look at her , and not stares at you because of the thing you want.
Easily can occur that she never discoverd you but now you arouse her interests and she realise that she likes you. Anything can happen,so please give yourself a chance.
That's also don't harm if you do something polite,manly,because you impressed her with it, and it's the main thing which you want to reach. But! You don't have to do it exactly to her, just do it when you know she is near you and she can catch the moment.
For example if you talk about ordinery things with your friends like where you live,hobby not just say and say and say. Give to it something plus and funny or interesting just to be unforgettable atleast for some days.
Think about that how can you attract attention and in the next chapter I will tell you how the easiest to get to know your picked girl.
For this time have a good reading! :)
Greetings, Andi
The easiest way(mostly if you shy) to know a girl is that you find out any availability of hers(etc. facebook,E-mail address) where you can message her. If you don't know her in real life or you just know her from school,job but didn't talk to her yet ,you have to guess what will you write in the first letter. If she answers that a half success, after that it will be easier, but somewhere you have to start it. These are things which you have to guess, that how you solve this problem but I'm sure you have good ideas for it cause if a man really like someone they find the mode to let her know it.
If you get stuck at somewhere, write me in comments or to my address and I'll help you if I can. : )
So, you should know how to acquire her availability and the text which you will write to her.We all know it's easier to write her than talk to her in real because if the words don't come fast you can think about it, you can edit which you've written and noone know if you blush.
Sure, not just ask her. Write about yourself also, etc. things which you share with her with pleasure. Maybe she likes the same things and has the same thoughts in her head.
It will be easier to meet her and talk to her, if you know more about eachother..so take advantage of this. Ascertain that, what tiny gifts suprise her, of course don't ask her.
Ascertain that also what places she likes so you can ask her out to a place where she can relaxed and lazy and so on.
In this way the feeling is that you know her from years because through on this time you know lots of things about eachother and the talking will be relaxed.
Umm..a good idea, for example start speak about that what you don't like..I mean for example people who arguing for no reason..it's something which she sure agree with so the conversation can easily go on.
But mainly write about that what you like, what are your interests, what is important for you and write with right spelling( although it's easy if you use spelling checker). Besides this watch out of the writing, be creative and a very good point if you are funny, but don't fall in exaggerations.
Reply if you can for her questions, because sure she ask it with reason.
If she asks something which you don't want to reply or you don't know the answer immediately what would be the best answer?
Well write to her this question suprised you and you need time to reply.
So you have time to think about it and later you'll sure know what to write but if no...then tell her you'd rather speak about it in real so you still have time to think. But keep think about the answer cause if you meet her she sure will be curious why you didn't want write it down. So your answer should be ready!
Ask her about things which you interested about her but just with rate! Don't ask too personal things.
Although lots of girls interested in boyly things, but at your questions,topics take into consideration that you don't speak with your dudes. First try know that what topics she interested in, because if you gushy about things which you like, etc. omg you saw the movie "The Time" ? I think it's very cool and I love it and .......... so on..
If she doesn't fond of movies or only this film didn't gains her pleasure she will be bored, but she won't tell it to you because she doesn't want hurt you.
Now I wanna write about that, you shouldn't afraid of the first date, and think about that wether you deserve her or not. Please forget it immediately!
If she really likes you then she likes the all of you, appearence and personality too..not matter if you think you have got a big nose, or big ears or you a little fatty and so on.
Maybe you have a trait which you don't like but she likes. What would be on the world if everyone like the same appearenced people? Fortunately there are lots of type of people and at the end , when the time comes everyone find them lover.
You feel yourself miserable and afraid of that she doesn't like you. Why would be someone different from you?
You have to own a little confidence. Think about that, she is just a flesh,blood person and she doesn't live in dreamland. Of course she can dream about singers and actors but she wants belong to an ordinery guy, lots of people don't like spotlights.
Easily can happen that she finds that trait positive in you which you don't.
Don't decide instead of her that she likes you or not, think about that in the same situation you wouldn't let her do the same when you crazy without her.
In fact, first the most important are the chemistry and the appearence but if you plan a long-term relationship with her the personality and the inside traits are the most important and most valuable.
Now go back to that which I started talk about in the previous chapter.
I finished at the eye contact...
Well while you watching at her, and you try everything just to be noticeable for her and of course you can't watch something else or someone else just her, try notice that what does she do when she notice you stare at her.
You know when they say read between the lines.
Thoroughly look her behaviour, reaction to decide what should be the next step.
If you don't know her that's harder but if you know how she behave when you guys speak, then you can decide if her attitude changed into you or not.
Unfortunately you can't be sure about the things even if she looks at you too, cause maybe she just curious why you look at her , and not stares at you because of the thing you want.
Easily can occur that she never discoverd you but now you arouse her interests and she realise that she likes you. Anything can happen,so please give yourself a chance.
That's also don't harm if you do something polite,manly,because you impressed her with it, and it's the main thing which you want to reach. But! You don't have to do it exactly to her, just do it when you know she is near you and she can catch the moment.
For example if you talk about ordinery things with your friends like where you live,hobby not just say and say and say. Give to it something plus and funny or interesting just to be unforgettable atleast for some days.
Think about that how can you attract attention and in the next chapter I will tell you how the easiest to get to know your picked girl.
For this time have a good reading! :)
Greetings, Andi
Saturday 30 August 2014
1. The first steps
Whether the way to the girls' heart is full of diamonds or full of spikes and scrubs, it's up to you. Did you know it?
To be successful and have a way full of diamonds to your dream girl, very important how u approach to her. Don't misunderstand the tiny signs which she react to your compliments, maybe she doesn't know how to get them yet. Easily can occur that you don't know yet how to accost her and how to get her answers. But it's not problem!!! That's why we here to solve this problem.
You know.....it's often happens with adult,mature men too,that they don't know WHAT A WOMAN NEED!
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I want help you with it, believe me it's very easy...maybe that's why it hard though to decipher the feelings of a girl. Well my opinion is that, it's not shame to look up informations about it on internet,ask your questions from a wise,mature person. You will be more successfull if the time comes and it will make you more confident as well.
I can compare it to that situation when a couple plan to have a baby. They ask their homies, read about things before it so they more preparedness when the little borns, but this is another topic.....
Do you like a girl but you don't know how to approach to her?
Well in the world history lots of thing changed, but anyone can say anything about it, I think the woman-man connection is the old.
A lot of people forget about this, but In my opinion there are things which are good in that way like they were in the past.
The male is the stronger,conqueror and the protector sex. Very important for them to be the tempting and to feel he captivated his love. Of course there are exceptions, but those relationships doesn't work for long time, even for short time,where the girl courts, walks after the boy, because in this situation the guy doesn't feel himself a male. Doesn't matter if he likes the girl also..at most just abuses but a gentlemen doesn't do things like this. I hope we agree!
In normal way the girls also want to be tempted by a boy, and to feel they important for that guy. Of course I mean it with lots of compliments, good treat and consciousness.
It's not random written with red letters!!!!!!!!!!
If the girl likes you as well,but nothing happen then sure she waites you to initiate
But if you don't do anything for this emerging relationship she won't wait you rather starts date with another person, who have the courage to ask her out. But I'm sure you won't wait till it happen, because later you can be angry and hate yourself when you see her with the guy hand in hand.
Another case, that you both look at eachother wistfully through on days, weeks, months but just walk next to eachother. But..What the sense of this? NOTHING!
Or if she really likes you and notice that you like her too, that can happen she helps you and takes over the initiative role, but not let it for long time.....help her...let her know you feel the same and try get back the initiative role. If she starts sniffing around you and you both know there is attraction between you, relax and don't afraid of the situation.
However, let us stay at that version when you need to beguile your date.
I bet you afraid of the refusal ,and you just think about that : "What if she says I don't like you in that way.." . Let's forget about it, better to be brave earlier than later. You never can know what the tomorrow brings.
For example, think about that situation you walk on the street and someone bumping to you. If you don't say anything just walk away like a bunny, later when you meet with that person it will be harder to see into them eyes cause maybe they will think there's no enough courage in you. I don't say you have to hit them..NO PLEASE! Just tell what you think.
If you finally decided, you want to know if the picked girl like you too, bring to light fast.
If the worst situation happens, that she doesn't like you, don't be sad. You did a favour to yourself, because you already know the truth.The bad is better than the uncertainty.
If you just hesitate nothing will happen. Be brave and win!
Go for it, don't procrastinate the thing. Chill, you don't have to do anything hair-raising, even you can do that thing that you want.... delight at your love.
For the time being, you don't have to speak with her, don't afraid!
First only show how much you like her and wait for her reaction. Look at her for long time and if your look meet, DON'T look away just look at her. I know, of course if your feelings are honest, it won't work immediately, cause you will feel the moment embarrassing,and you may blush but practise! Try look at her everytime a bit more when she looks at you then ALSO!
You only can ascertain in this way if there's attraction between you and she. If you start an eye contact the first step done. WOOOOOOOT
But please wait patiently, don't misunderstand the signs cause maybe she doesn't like you but you think she does..... and your behaviour will change into her and being happy and yay I'm the luckiest person on the world feeling, BUT if she finally has the courage and tells you she doesn't like you.... that will be an awkward moment and noone want it!
Now let's think about that situation when you haven't got possibility to make an eye contact because you've met her online and just correspondence.
The honesty is very important from the beginning, because yeah it can be attractive and interesting if you send her an unknown person's photo and show a very different nature,which you just want to own. But if you not just fooling the girl(HOPEFULLY)and you wanna reach the level "meeting" then think before act. On the meeting everything will come true, mostly if there will be lots of date not just one. And we know you don't want lose her because of your bullshits and then you can explain her why you did it but she won't trust you anymore.
Think about it, there's no reason why you should risk it, even if you dissatisfied with yourself. You would repent after the first date why you weren't honest.
Sure if you make a mistake, keep apologise and explain the thing cause everyone deserve an other chance. However if you get it DON'T try scam her again... a new chance is a gift.
So if you just chatting, that easier than the meeting but still impersonal. You can't know if she wrote it as a joke or she was serious. Therefor the misapprehensions can be more which takes longer to explain and if cause of a misunderstanding she doesn't reply for a while you can't be sure what happent. Not to mention that there are lots of slangs today which not make it easier.
I finish it now, but soon I'll continue from here and write about that how can you understand the feedbacks. For this time have a good reading time! : )
Greetings, Andi
To be successful and have a way full of diamonds to your dream girl, very important how u approach to her. Don't misunderstand the tiny signs which she react to your compliments, maybe she doesn't know how to get them yet. Easily can occur that you don't know yet how to accost her and how to get her answers. But it's not problem!!! That's why we here to solve this problem.
You know.....it's often happens with adult,mature men too,that they don't know WHAT A WOMAN NEED!
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I want help you with it, believe me it's very easy...maybe that's why it hard though to decipher the feelings of a girl. Well my opinion is that, it's not shame to look up informations about it on internet,ask your questions from a wise,mature person. You will be more successfull if the time comes and it will make you more confident as well.
I can compare it to that situation when a couple plan to have a baby. They ask their homies, read about things before it so they more preparedness when the little borns, but this is another topic.....
Do you like a girl but you don't know how to approach to her?
Well in the world history lots of thing changed, but anyone can say anything about it, I think the woman-man connection is the old.
A lot of people forget about this, but In my opinion there are things which are good in that way like they were in the past.
The male is the stronger,conqueror and the protector sex. Very important for them to be the tempting and to feel he captivated his love. Of course there are exceptions, but those relationships doesn't work for long time, even for short time,where the girl courts, walks after the boy, because in this situation the guy doesn't feel himself a male. Doesn't matter if he likes the girl also..at most just abuses but a gentlemen doesn't do things like this. I hope we agree!
In normal way the girls also want to be tempted by a boy, and to feel they important for that guy. Of course I mean it with lots of compliments, good treat and consciousness.
It's not random written with red letters!!!!!!!!!!
If the girl likes you as well,but nothing happen then sure she waites you to initiate
But if you don't do anything for this emerging relationship she won't wait you rather starts date with another person, who have the courage to ask her out. But I'm sure you won't wait till it happen, because later you can be angry and hate yourself when you see her with the guy hand in hand.
Another case, that you both look at eachother wistfully through on days, weeks, months but just walk next to eachother. But..What the sense of this? NOTHING!
Or if she really likes you and notice that you like her too, that can happen she helps you and takes over the initiative role, but not let it for long time.....help her...let her know you feel the same and try get back the initiative role. If she starts sniffing around you and you both know there is attraction between you, relax and don't afraid of the situation.
However, let us stay at that version when you need to beguile your date.
I bet you afraid of the refusal ,and you just think about that : "What if she says I don't like you in that way.." . Let's forget about it, better to be brave earlier than later. You never can know what the tomorrow brings.
For example, think about that situation you walk on the street and someone bumping to you. If you don't say anything just walk away like a bunny, later when you meet with that person it will be harder to see into them eyes cause maybe they will think there's no enough courage in you. I don't say you have to hit them..NO PLEASE! Just tell what you think.
If you finally decided, you want to know if the picked girl like you too, bring to light fast.
If the worst situation happens, that she doesn't like you, don't be sad. You did a favour to yourself, because you already know the truth.The bad is better than the uncertainty.
If you just hesitate nothing will happen. Be brave and win!
Go for it, don't procrastinate the thing. Chill, you don't have to do anything hair-raising, even you can do that thing that you want.... delight at your love.
For the time being, you don't have to speak with her, don't afraid!
First only show how much you like her and wait for her reaction. Look at her for long time and if your look meet, DON'T look away just look at her. I know, of course if your feelings are honest, it won't work immediately, cause you will feel the moment embarrassing,and you may blush but practise! Try look at her everytime a bit more when she looks at you then ALSO!
You only can ascertain in this way if there's attraction between you and she. If you start an eye contact the first step done. WOOOOOOOT
But please wait patiently, don't misunderstand the signs cause maybe she doesn't like you but you think she does..... and your behaviour will change into her and being happy and yay I'm the luckiest person on the world feeling, BUT if she finally has the courage and tells you she doesn't like you.... that will be an awkward moment and noone want it!
Now let's think about that situation when you haven't got possibility to make an eye contact because you've met her online and just correspondence.
The honesty is very important from the beginning, because yeah it can be attractive and interesting if you send her an unknown person's photo and show a very different nature,which you just want to own. But if you not just fooling the girl(HOPEFULLY)and you wanna reach the level "meeting" then think before act. On the meeting everything will come true, mostly if there will be lots of date not just one. And we know you don't want lose her because of your bullshits and then you can explain her why you did it but she won't trust you anymore.
Think about it, there's no reason why you should risk it, even if you dissatisfied with yourself. You would repent after the first date why you weren't honest.
Sure if you make a mistake, keep apologise and explain the thing cause everyone deserve an other chance. However if you get it DON'T try scam her again... a new chance is a gift.
So if you just chatting, that easier than the meeting but still impersonal. You can't know if she wrote it as a joke or she was serious. Therefor the misapprehensions can be more which takes longer to explain and if cause of a misunderstanding she doesn't reply for a while you can't be sure what happent. Not to mention that there are lots of slangs today which not make it easier.
I finish it now, but soon I'll continue from here and write about that how can you understand the feedbacks. For this time have a good reading time! : )
Greetings, Andi
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