To be successful and have a way full of diamonds to your dream girl, very important how u approach to her. Don't misunderstand the tiny signs which she react to your compliments, maybe she doesn't know how to get them yet. Easily can occur that you don't know yet how to accost her and how to get her answers. But it's not problem!!! That's why we here to solve this problem.
You know.....it's often happens with adult,mature men too,that they don't know WHAT A WOMAN NEED!
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I want help you with it, believe me it's very easy...maybe that's why it hard though to decipher the feelings of a girl. Well my opinion is that, it's not shame to look up informations about it on internet,ask your questions from a wise,mature person. You will be more successfull if the time comes and it will make you more confident as well.
I can compare it to that situation when a couple plan to have a baby. They ask their homies, read about things before it so they more preparedness when the little borns, but this is another topic.....
Do you like a girl but you don't know how to approach to her?
Well in the world history lots of thing changed, but anyone can say anything about it, I think the woman-man connection is the old.
A lot of people forget about this, but In my opinion there are things which are good in that way like they were in the past.
The male is the stronger,conqueror and the protector sex. Very important for them to be the tempting and to feel he captivated his love. Of course there are exceptions, but those relationships doesn't work for long time, even for short time,where the girl courts, walks after the boy, because in this situation the guy doesn't feel himself a male. Doesn't matter if he likes the girl also..at most just abuses but a gentlemen doesn't do things like this. I hope we agree!
In normal way the girls also want to be tempted by a boy, and to feel they important for that guy. Of course I mean it with lots of compliments, good treat and consciousness.
It's not random written with red letters!!!!!!!!!!
If the girl likes you as well,but nothing happen then sure she waites you to initiate
But if you don't do anything for this emerging relationship she won't wait you rather starts date with another person, who have the courage to ask her out. But I'm sure you won't wait till it happen, because later you can be angry and hate yourself when you see her with the guy hand in hand.
Another case, that you both look at eachother wistfully through on days, weeks, months but just walk next to eachother. But..What the sense of this? NOTHING!
Or if she really likes you and notice that you like her too, that can happen she helps you and takes over the initiative role, but not let it for long time.....help her...let her know you feel the same and try get back the initiative role. If she starts sniffing around you and you both know there is attraction between you, relax and don't afraid of the situation.
However, let us stay at that version when you need to beguile your date.
I bet you afraid of the refusal ,and you just think about that : "What if she says I don't like you in that way.." . Let's forget about it, better to be brave earlier than later. You never can know what the tomorrow brings.
For example, think about that situation you walk on the street and someone bumping to you. If you don't say anything just walk away like a bunny, later when you meet with that person it will be harder to see into them eyes cause maybe they will think there's no enough courage in you. I don't say you have to hit them..NO PLEASE! Just tell what you think.
If you finally decided, you want to know if the picked girl like you too, bring to light fast.
If the worst situation happens, that she doesn't like you, don't be sad. You did a favour to yourself, because you already know the truth.The bad is better than the uncertainty.
If you just hesitate nothing will happen. Be brave and win!
Go for it, don't procrastinate the thing. Chill, you don't have to do anything hair-raising, even you can do that thing that you want.... delight at your love.
For the time being, you don't have to speak with her, don't afraid!
First only show how much you like her and wait for her reaction. Look at her for long time and if your look meet, DON'T look away just look at her. I know, of course if your feelings are honest, it won't work immediately, cause you will feel the moment embarrassing,and you may blush but practise! Try look at her everytime a bit more when she looks at you then ALSO!
You only can ascertain in this way if there's attraction between you and she. If you start an eye contact the first step done. WOOOOOOOT
But please wait patiently, don't misunderstand the signs cause maybe she doesn't like you but you think she does..... and your behaviour will change into her and being happy and yay I'm the luckiest person on the world feeling, BUT if she finally has the courage and tells you she doesn't like you.... that will be an awkward moment and noone want it!
Now let's think about that situation when you haven't got possibility to make an eye contact because you've met her online and just correspondence.
The honesty is very important from the beginning, because yeah it can be attractive and interesting if you send her an unknown person's photo and show a very different nature,which you just want to own. But if you not just fooling the girl(HOPEFULLY)and you wanna reach the level "meeting" then think before act. On the meeting everything will come true, mostly if there will be lots of date not just one. And we know you don't want lose her because of your bullshits and then you can explain her why you did it but she won't trust you anymore.
Think about it, there's no reason why you should risk it, even if you dissatisfied with yourself. You would repent after the first date why you weren't honest.
Sure if you make a mistake, keep apologise and explain the thing cause everyone deserve an other chance. However if you get it DON'T try scam her again... a new chance is a gift.
So if you just chatting, that easier than the meeting but still impersonal. You can't know if she wrote it as a joke or she was serious. Therefor the misapprehensions can be more which takes longer to explain and if cause of a misunderstanding she doesn't reply for a while you can't be sure what happent. Not to mention that there are lots of slangs today which not make it easier.
I finish it now, but soon I'll continue from here and write about that how can you understand the feedbacks. For this time have a good reading time! : )
Greetings, Andi
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